Murano explains that the tea ceremony has four spiritual pillars: Wa, Kei, Sei, and Jaku, or Harmony, Respect, Purification, and Tranquility. Considering these four elements will put hosts, students, and guests in the right mindset when performing or attending the ceremony.
Setting
The host meticulously prepares the setting in advance of the event. Typically, it will be held in a Japanese-style room, with tatami mats and floor cushions. The decor will be carefully chosen to reflect the season, usually including a seasonal flower arrangement and sometimes an alcove (tokonoma) with art such as a calligraphy scroll. If the event is held in a traditional teahouse, the room may have a diminutive door, causing all entrants to bow when coming through, symbolizing equality and respect.
Clothing
Your host will likely be wearing a kimono, carefully chosen for the occasion. The colors and motifs will reflect the season, and the kimono is differentiated “according to occupation, social status, and age,” says Murano. “Tea people are experts in wearing seasonal kimono.”
Guests may also wear kimono, if possible. “The host will feel respected if the guest pays a visit wearing a kimono matching the season,” says Murano. But if not, guests should dress in a manner that is respectful to the hosts and acknowledges the effort they put into preparing the event. Simple and elegant is a good goal. Shoes must be removed to protect tatami mats, and clean white socks or tabi socks are recommended. A short ceremony will be 30–45 minutes, and guests should be prepared to sit on the floor for the duration of the experience.
Insider tip: Remove accessories such as rings and watches, so as not to damage the delicate teaware.